20 Good Things That Happened in 2020

With the way this year turned out, it may have been hard to see the good in every day, but even with the pandemic, there were lots of good things that have happened for me.

I am so grateful for what I have, and all the good that has happened, even in the midst of a difficult time.

Here are 20 good things that happened for me this year:

1. Being able to keep my job through this pandemic
2. Learning new crochet stitches
3. Crocheting a sweater for my dad
4. Celebrating my niece's birthday
5. Celebrating my nephew's birthday
6. Cooking Thanksgiving dinner
7. Baking a pumpkin pie for Thanksgiving
8. Celebrating Thanksgiving with my family
9. Celebrating Christmas with my family
10. Getting a birthday card from my dad
11. Seeing several cardinals on my way home from work on multiple days
12. Seeing woodpeckers on my way home from work
13. Participating in the 2020 Joni and Friends Walk 'N' Roll virtual event
14. Joining a Zoom series chat with my Joni and Friends retreat friends
15. Participating in a Joni and Friends virtual Christmas gathering
16. Baking a cake for my birthday
17. A girl saying hi to me, while I was walking to work
18. Finally getting to watch the play Hamilton on Disney+
19. Lots of snuggles with my cats
20. Baking cookies for Christmas

What are some good things that happened to you this year? I hope there were more good things than not so good in your year.

If this year was not a good year for you, I hope better days are ahead.

My Top 10 Goals I Would Like To Accomplish By The End of 2021

I love making goals for myself, even though I don't achieve many of them (and the ones I do accomplish took longer than expected to achieve).

I have a lot of goals I would like to accomplish in life, but these are the ones I would like to work on, and/or complete this year.

1. Save 2/3 of each paycheck
   I am one of those people that spends more than they save, and I want to change that.
   
   
2. Be an STM at a Joni and Friends retreat
   I got to got to my very first Joni and Friends retreat in 2019, and instantly fell in love. I didn't get to go last year, obviously because of Covid, but I am hoping this year goes better, and that they will be able to be held this year.
   
   
3. Get my bedroom redecorated (walls repainted, new bed, etc.)
   My bedroom has been the same since I was a kid, and I am tired of how it looks. 
   
   
4. Travel to New York
   I have always wanted to go to New York, and I have been thinking about actually going for the last few years.
   
   
5. Practice my cake/cookie/baked goods decorating skills more regularly
   I took baking and decorating classes in college, but have hardly used them since graduating. I would love to make more desserts and to decorate them, more often.
   
   
6. Purchase a laptop for myself
   It is kind of frustrating when we have one working computer in the house, to use among four people, so I would love to be able to have my own computer/laptop
   
   
7. Purchase a DSLR camera for myself
   Photography is one of my main passions, and I would like to get a good DSLR camera for myself, so I can learn how to take better pictures.
   
   
8. Create a vision board
   I love vision boards, and I think it's a great idea having a board of things you would like to have/do/experience in your life, in a place where you can see it every day.
   
   
9. Get into a loving, caring, healthy relationship with a significant other
   I am more than ready to be in a relationship, and I hope it happens sooner rather than later.
   
   
10. Get my driver's license
    I am not confident in my driving ability, even though I have taken driver's ed in high school. I want to work on that, and be more independent. I don't want to have to rely on other people taking me places all the time.

The First Sweater I Have Ever Made

For the last few years, my dad had been asking me to make him a sweater, as he knew I was a knitter and crocheter.

I never got around to it, mainly because I wanted to focus on school (I graduated last year). And, I was apprehensive about making a sweater, as I had never made one before.

At the beginning of this month, I finally bit the bullet, and bought the supplies to make one, and got started.

There were two stitches in the pattern I used (this one), that I had never done before, so I looked up how to on YouTube. The stitches are front post double crochet, and back post double crochet.

It took me a few tries, but I was able to figure out the stitches, and I got the hang of it.

These stitches were for the ribbing on the bottom of the body, and on the ends of the sleeves.

I started out with the back piece of the body, and I was having a hard time with that piece at first. I figured out I wasn't reading it right, and got it after a few days.

Then it was on to the front, which was a little different than the back. 

I had to figure out how to do the arm and shoulder shaping, so it confused me at first (I don't know why). But it suddenly clicked one day, and I was good to go after that.

Back

Front

Front on the left, back on the right

Once I finished the front and back pieces, I moved on to the sleeves. 

Once again, I was having a hard time with the pattern for the sleeves, for whatever reason.

I got the ribbing part, but the rest was proving difficult. But, as with the body, I was able to figure out how to work the sleeves, and got them done in a few days.

One of the finished sleeves

After about two weeks, I finished all of the pieces, (to be honest, it took less time than I thought it would), and I am happy with how they turned out.

All of the finished pieces

It took me another week or so to sew all the pieces together, as well as making the neckband, but that was only because I was procrastinating on doing so.

But, I finished it on Christmas eve, which I was so happy about.

I gave the sweater to my dad for Christmas, and he put it on after everyone opened up all of our gifts.

The whole thing turned out a lot better than I expected, but to be honest, I am glad it's finished. There was a lot of learning, frustration, and redoing parts of it, and I am glad I got it done.

The only thing is, the neckband is way too wide, so I will have to fix that somehow.

Otherwise, my dad says it fits perfectly, and he loves it. I am relieved, and happy, that it came out as well as it did and that he loves it.

And that I finally made the darn thing.

Now that I know I can make a sweater, I am more confident in my abilities, and will definitely be making more big projects in the future.

My 2021 Word of the Year: Courage

I have been doing word of the year for a few years now, and it has gone ok, but it definitely needs some work.

I was recently thinking about what I want my word to be for 2021, and saw the word courage somewhere (I don't remember where, exactly).

Courage is the perfect word for me, as I tend to shy away from a lot of things that would put me out of my comfort zone on many occasions.

And I want to change that.

As a very shy and introverted person, most of my time that is not spent at work is spent at home. I will either be playing a video game (I have been playing video games A LOT this year), listening to music, watching a movie, or hanging out in my room.

Which is why I don't do the things I really want to do much of the time. 

Things like:

• Talking to people, and in turn making more friends (I don't have very many friends)
• Traveling to new or favorite places
• Getting my driver's license, and driving
• Working at a bakery, and improving my baking and decorating skills
• Taking better care of myself (and loving myself)
• To be in a relationship with a significant other
• Asking for help when I am struggling
• Living on my own
• Shaving my head at least once in my life (yes, I want to shave my head!)
• Calling people (I hate making phone calls, especially to people I don't know)
• Reaching out to current friends, to talk or do things with
• Going to events in the city that I would really like to go to (concerts, plays, etc.)

I want to have the courage to be who I really am, and to do the things I really want to do. I want to have the courage to stand up for myself, to have my voice heard.

A lot of people have made me feel like I am not worth getting to know, not worth being friends with, not worth being heard, not worth making memories with.

I am one of those people that cares about what others think of me, which is why I hesitate to do things, why I hesitate to be the real me.

And I want to have the courage to change that.

My 2021 Bucket List

I am always thinking about things I want to do, and am always making bucket lists for different aspects of my life.

Here is what I would like to do in 2021:

• Get my driver's license
• Be an STM at a Joni and Friends Retreat
• Go to the Joni and Friends Walk 'N' Roll
• See a movie at a drive-in movie theater
• Visit the zoo
• Be in a loving, caring relationship with a significant other
• Have a more balanced diet
• Exercise on a regular basis
• Have a skincare routine that works for me
• Have a haircare routine that works for me
• Buy as DSLR camera
• Buy a laptop
• Spend the day (or a few) in the city
• Have a girls' night out/in
• Have at least one spa day a month
• Visit New York
• Go to a fall fest
• Cook Thanksgiving dinner
• Host at least one game night
• Host a Friendsgiving
• Go on a road trip with friends
• Have at least one photoshoot done
• Save more money than I spend
• Learn how to French braid
• Learn how to do a fishtail braid
• Learn how to apply my own makeup
• Be more confident in myself
• Learn how to do calligraphy
• Go horseback riding
• Go sledding
• Ride my bike often
• Try at least five new-to-me restaurants
• Make new/more friends
• Take up painting
• Knit/crochet one item a month
• Learn to sew
• Work on writing a book
• Pay for someone's drink/meal
• Learn Spanish
• Learn sign language
• Complete a video game
• Learn how to make macarons
• Bake something at least once a week
• Go on a picnic
• Write in a prayer journal on a regular basis
• Visit at least one friend in another city/state
• Sponsor a child
• Go on a shopping trip with friends
• Become more independent
• Start my photography degree
• Start my own YouTube channel
• Learn how to film, edit, and upload videos
• Keep in contact with my friends on a more regular basis
• Tie dye/bleach dye clothes
• Have at least one beach day
• Keep a prayer journal
• Diffuse essential oils
• Make my own pizza
• Make chalk art on the sidewalk
• Go tubing
• Visit relatives
• Buy and lay (lie?) in a hammock
• Play laser tag
• Go paintballing
• Get my passport
• Get a tattoo in memory of my mom
• Get another piercing in each ear
• Get my nose pierced
• Write at least one song
• Put together a 3D puzzle
• Make friendship bracelets
• Make a cake and decorate it
• Make ice cream
• Play with bubbles
• Run through the sprinklers
• Have a water balloon/water gun fight
• Learn how to play the ukulele
• Go for early morning walks
• Take better care of my mental health
• Learn how to use chopsticks
• Dye my hair a crazy color
• Keep my bedroom clean
• Own a denim jacket, and decorate it with patches
• Have a snowball fight
• Go sledding
• Shave my head
• Make a hot chocolate charcuterie for winter
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Yes, I know this is a lot, but I want to do a lot in my life, and I think this is a good start for 2021.

What I Got for Christmas 2020

First, I would like to say merry Christmas to those who celebrate! To those who do not, I hope you have a wonderful day, whatever you do.

My dad, brothers and I opened presents on Christmas Eve, and then my sister and her family came over on Christmas day for a little bit, and we opened up more gifts.

This is what I got for Christmas this year:

• Believe by Andrea Bocelli CD
• Once Upon a Time season 3 on DVD
• Downton Abbey season 5 on DVD
• Kingdom Hearts: The Story So Far PlayStation 4 game
• Taste of Home Meal Planning: Smart Meal Prep to Carry You Through the Week cookbook
• Cell phone case
• Portable cell phone charger
• USB cables for cell phone
• The Hunger Games: Catching Fire DVD
• WREBBIT 3D Harry Potter The Burrow puzzle
• Amazon Echo Dot
• Amazon Smart Plug (works with Alexa)
• Baby Yoda plushie (not on my wishlist, but I love it!)
• Lego The Incredibles PlayStation 4 game (not on my wishlist, but I will play it)
• Lego City Undercover PlayStation 4 game (not on my wishlist, but I will play it)
• Sunrise Wake Up Light alarm clock
• Real Life Dinners cookbook by Rachel Hollis
• Going the Distance by Jonathan Antoine CD

I am happy with what I got, and enjoyed spending time with my family. I just wish the days lasted a little longer. Christmas went by way too fast for me.

I have already started using my Echo dot, and am having way too much fun with it!

Christmas was definitely unusual this year, but I still had a good holiday season. Hopefully next year will be better, and we can spend more time with others, in person rather than through video chatting.

Merry Christmas!!

My Favorite Christmas Songs

I love Christmas music, and always look forward to the time of year, when radio stations start playing this type of music.

I do have my favorite songs, that I absolutely love listening to. I never get tired or hearing them, and look forward to the songs every holiday season.

My favorite songs are:

• God Bless Us Everyone by Andrea Bocelli
  (from the 2009 version of the movie A Christmas Carol)
• The Kenny Rogers and Wynona Judd version of Mary, Did You Know?
• Dominick the Donkey/The Italian Christmas Donkey
• O, Holy Night
• It Came Upon a Midnight Clear
• Mele Kalikimaka by Bing Crosby
• Believe by Josh Groban
  (from the movie The Polar Express)
• Adeste Fideles
• O Come All Ye Faithful
• The Burl Ives version of Holly Jolly Christmas
• The Johnny Mathis version of It's Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas
• Angels We Have Heard on High
• Santa Claus is Coming to Town
• O Come Emmanuel
• Hallelujah
• We Three Kings of Orient Are
• Mary's Boy Child
• Gene Autry's version of Up On The House Top
• Elvis Presley's version of Here Comes Santa Claus 
• Peace on Earth/Little Drummer Boy by Bing Crosby & David Bowie
• The Harry Simeone Chorale version of Little Drummer Boy
• Caroling, Caroling by Nat King Cole

What are your favorite holiday songs? If you celebrate Christmas, I hope you have a wonderful Christmas time, and that it is as memorable as possible.

My Friendship Bucket List

I have done many wonderful things with my friends over the years, but lately, I haven't been able to do as much as I would have liked (not just this year, but in years past as well).

And I want to change that. I love my friends, and would love to be able to do more things with them.

Here is what I would like to do with my friends, in no particular order.

• Have photoshoots
• Go on a girls road trip
• Have a regular game night
• Have a spa day
• Go to a local football game
• Go camping
• Have a picnic
• Have a shopping day
• Go to a paint night together
• Go swimming
• Do a gift challenge
• Go to a concert
• Go indoor skydiving
• Write letters to each other, to open in ten years
• Have sleepovers
• Have a movie night
• Go to the beach
• Bake together
• Go to a drive-in movie theater
• Make pizza from scratch
• Spend a day at an amusement park
• Make friendship bracelets
• Go to the zoo
• Write a song
• Go to a pumpkin patch
• Go ice skating
• Host a craft night
• Go to a museum
• Go to a carnival
• Have a water balloon fight
• Put a puzzle together
• Visit a foreign country
• Binge-watch a TV show
• Visit a Disney park
• Make scrapbooks
• Do an Escape Room
• Host a Friendsgiving
• Celebrate New Year's
• Have a Christmas party
• Celebrate Galentine's Day
• Go thrifting
• Carve/decorate pumpkins
• Play on a playground
• Go on bike rides
• Make s'mores
• Go ziplining
• Go on double dates
• Volunteer together
• Have a silly string fight
• Host/have bbqs
• Fly a kite
• Paint/decorate white sneakers
• Decorate gingerbread houses (Halloween, Christmas, etc.)
• Make Christmas cookies
• Dye our hair
• Take selfies with each other
• Have a girls' night
• Take pictures in a photo booth
• Make vision boards/books
• Have an all nighter
• Get henna tattoos

I may add more if I think of anything, but I think this is a good start to what I want to do with my friends.

Christmas Stocking Stuffer Ideas

My family and I haven't done Christmas stockings in years, but I always loved them, and seeing what I got in mine.

If you are doing stockings for Christmas, and don't know what to put in them, here is a list of ideas for what to get for your family (and anyone else you may be giving them to).

• Gift cards (favorite restaurants, coffee places, Apple, favorite stores, etc.)
• Favorite candy/gum/snacks
• Socks
• Perfume/cologne/body mist
• Body wash
• Loofahs
• Toy cars
• Nail polish
• Nail files/clippers
• Hand sanitizer
• Hair ties
• Headbands
• Deodorant
• Bath bombs
• Bath salt
• Chocolate
• Jewelry
• Cell phone chargers
• Makeup
• Makeup brushes
• Makeup remover wipes
• Money
• Books
• Brushes/combs
• Fairy lights
• Coloring books
• Colored pencils
• Journals
• Magazine Subscriptions
• Lip gloss
• Hand lotion
• Candles
• Scarves
• Hats
• Gloves
• Sleep masks
• Shaving kits
• Ear buds
• Bluetooth speakers
• Cell phone cases
• Wallets
• Stickers
• Crayons
• Playdough
• Stuffed animals
• Card games
• Travel games
• Legos
• Sidewalk chalk
• Glow stick bracelets/necklaces
• Slinky
• Silly straws
• Onesies
• Sippy cups
• Teethers
• Pop sockets
• Beauty blenders (or similar)
• Face masks (for healthier skin)
• Pacifier
• Erasers
• Water bottles
• Tea
• Travel mugs
• Mini flashlights
• Movies
• Grilling items
• Sunglasses
• Puzzle books
• Playing cards
• Movie tickets
• Bouncy balls
• Jump ropes
• fruit snacks (kids)
• Crackers
• Gel pens
• Frisbees
• Nightlights
• Knitting supplies
• Crochet supplies
• Keychains
• Baking supplies (spatula, cookie cutters, cupcake liners, etc.)
• Slime
• Conair perfect bun maker
• Mugs
• Temporary tattoos
• Fidget toys/items
• Bobby pins
• Finger puppets
• Hand warmers
• Finger painting kits
• FitBit
• Reusable grocery bags
• Homemade soap
• Rubber stamp sets
• Memory cards
• Amazon Echo Dot
• Pajamas
• Instax camera film
• Hot cocoa mix kit
• Watches
• Manicure/pedicure sets
• Scrunchies
• Painting supplies
• Photo albums

Whatever you put in the stockings, I hope they are a big hit for whoever they are for!

My 2020 Christmas Wishlist

Since 2020 went in a direction no one ever expected, I started writing my Christmas list ages ago, and came up with this list of things I would like to get for the holidays.

It took me a while to decide what I really wanted to get this year, and what I would be willing to wait for, for some other time.

So, this is my 2020 Christmas Wishlist:

• Taco Cat Goat Cheese Pizza Card Game
• Paint brushes
• Canvas boards
• Acrylic paint
• The Hunger Games Catching Fire DVD
• The Sims 4 PlayStation 4 game
• Kingdom Hearts 3 PlayStation 4 game
• WREBBIT 3D Harry Potter the Knight Bus Jigsaw Puzzle
• WREBBIT 3D Harry Potter the Burrow Weasley Family Home Jigsaw Puzzle
• UNO Flip Game
• What Do You Meme? Party Game
• Joking Hazard Deck Enhancement #2
• UNO Attack! Card Game
• Wonder Woman DVD
• Funko POP Doctor Who Tenth Doctor
• Downton Abbey Season 5 on DVD
• Star Wars Episode 1: The Phantom Menace on DVD
• Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone book on CD
• Wake Up Light Sunrise Alarm Clock
• Echo Dot
• Amazon Basics Colored Pencils
• Kingdom Hearts The Story So Far PlayStation 4 game
• Sketchpad
• Taste of Home Meal Planning Cookbook
• Going the Distance by Jonathan Antoine CD
• Bonanza Season 4 on DVD
• Real Life Dinners cookbook by Rachel Hollis
• Christmas is Here! by Pentatonix CD
• Cell phone wall charger
• Once Upon a Time Season 3 on DVD
• Cell phone case
• Lego the Hobbit PlayStation 4 game
• Portable phone charger
• Outlander season 1 on DVD
• Who Can Do It card game
• Incohearent card game
• Believe by Andrea Bocelli CD

Yes, I know this is a lot. I do not expect to get all of these for Christmas, these are just things I would LIKE to get. I will be happy with whatever I get for Christmas.