Monday, January 29, 2024

2024 Goals (A Little More Specific)

I have been thinking a lot about my goals, and figured I would like to be a little more specific with what I want to accomplish this year.

I have split them up into categories, to make it easier to find each goal, and to see how I want to grow in each category. Hopefully this will be the year that I actually work on many of these goals, as I tend to procrastinate a lot. And I want to change that.

These are in no particular order, but here is a somewhat more detailed list of my goals for 2024.

Relationships
Talk to at least one friend/family member a day
Have a few game nights with friends
Go on at least one trip with friends
Be in a loving, healthy relationship with a significant other
Go on adventures with friends/family/significant other
Make crafts together
Make new friends


Finances
Save more than I spend
Be wiser about the things I purchase/how much I purchase
Learn how to budget
Build up an emergency fund
Work towards becoming financially stable/independent
Track my spending


Work
Update my resume
Find a job that I love, that works for me
Stand up for myself/speak up, if something isn't right
Try networking
Develop skill sets
Gain new experiences
Improve work relationships
Learn to set boundaries
Gain hands-on experience in fields that I am interested in
Start a new degree


Health
Eat a more balanced diet
Some form of exercise every day (30-45 minutes a day)
Improve my daily hygiene habits
Drink more water every day
Improve my posture
Do a regular digital detox
Create a skincare routine that works for me
Create a haircare routine that works for me


Home
Get bedroom cleaned up
Redecorate bedroom
Keep bedroom clean
Declutter as much stuff as possible, that I don't need/want anymore
Create an ICE (In Case of Emergency) binder


Personal
Learn to speak up more
Don't worry about what others think of me
Pray every day
Deepen my faith
Deepen my relationship with God, Jesus
Do one thing a month, that is out of my comfort zone
Spend less time online (maybe down to 1 or 2 hours a week)
Learn Spanish a little each day
Learn how to play one song on the violin a week
Read up to 3 chapters of a book each day  
Get over my fear of driving (more specifically, of hitting someone or something), get more comfortable driving, and finally get my driver's license
Knit or crochet at least one item a month
Develop better social skills
Improve my public speaking skills
Work on my procrastination


I know this is a lot, but I want to at least get started on some, and complete others, depending on how long each goal takes to complete.

Hopefully I can actually make changes in my life, as things are slow for me now. I am in a sort of waiting/in-between period, and I am ready to really live my life. I am done with feeling like I am failing in life and am ready to do more. To be more than someone who is waiting for something to happen, instead of actually doing it.


Have you set any goals for 2024? How are you doing in achieving them?

Monday, January 1, 2024

My Word for 2024

For several years now, I have bee doing a word for the year. I've done ok with sticking with my word of the year, but I can definitely do better.

Hopefully 2024 will be the year that I take it seriously, and work on doing better.

My word for 2024 is: COURAGE

For as long as I can remember, I have been very shy and afraid of speaking up for myself, as well as doing as much as I can for myself.

Being so shy, and not sticking up for myself, has made me feel like I couldn't do anything, and that I was missing out on what would be the best things for me.

This year, I want to say yes to doing more of the things I want to do, and no to staying on the sidelines. Yes to doing more things for myself, so that I can be as independent as possible, and no to being afraid of doing things.

I want to have more confidence, and less fear.

This year, I want to:

  • Reach out to my friends and family more
  • Become more comfortable with public speaking
  • Become more comfortable with making phone calls (and talking to people on the phone)
  • Take better care of my physical and mental health
  • Deepen my faith and relationship with God
  • Become more comfortable with starting a conversation with someone
  • Become more comfortable with praying out loud, in a group of people
  • Learn how to not care so much about what others think of me
  • Learn how to not doubt myself so much
  • Become more comfortable with driving, and to get my driver's license
  • Get a job that I will love, that works for me and my skillset
  • Pray every day, in the morning and before bed  
  • Say yes to more things that I want to do  
  • Create boundaries and stand up for myself
  • Go on a vacation by myself
  • Start a YouTube channel, and post regularly
  • Try indoor skydiving
  • Try the ropes course at camp (if I am able to go this year)
  • Teach myself how to play the violin
  • Teach myself how to play the ukulele
  • Try karate
  • Write compliments on sticky notes and leave them in random places
  • Have a photo shoot taken in public
  • Write and send letters to friends, telling them what they mean to me
  • Learn Spanish
  • Learn Sign Language
  • Play a song on the violin, in front of a group of people
I know this is a lot, but I want to stop being so afraid of going after the things I want, and of living up to my true potential.

Do you have a word for 2024?